Just a little faith is all it takes.....

 Can you imagine losing a child and being accused of bringing harm to cause the death? Can you imagine while trying to process and grieve what just took place being in the back of a police car then interrogated and held for hours for questioning overnight at the police station? Can you imagine those close to you family, friends and strangers also accusing you or using it against you to hurt your feelings? Can you imagine being at your lowest and feeling like no one understands or cares enough to stand by you? Whether you answered yes or no, my answer is yes to them all. I can honestly say I have to thank god for my strength and him keeping me during these tough times.  I was at my lowest not knowing which way to go but one thing I knew is that I had to remain strong for my other child and for myself. I knew even facing what any parent worst nightmare is that I still had to find the faith and keep pushing. Just know I am here to encourage you and talk you through anything you m...

Unbelievable! Can you imagine almost every encounter in life being a lesson or chance for you to mentor or encourage someone. Do you understand how far just being kind can go? You have no idea what the person right in front of you may be going through. I am not perfect and i am still figuring a lot out, but I have realized striving for righteousness and walking in my purpose will carry me. It has brought me so far, and I am not speaking financially. Just in general, I look at situations I witness or individuals I come across and it amazes me how many people I end up speaking life into. Just the thought gives me chills because the power of the tongue is underrated. Planting seeds and watching them grow is so much more worthwhile than doing many other things in life. I love to hear feedback or have someone come later or even just see the progress and growth. It genuinely melts my heart; when you have a huge heart its difficult not to care or go out of your way for others. I will also sha...

The worst thing to do is continue dragging along generational curses. When I mention this; I mean that in the humblest way. I can go into depth with this topic, but I will leave that to be a podcast topic. First thing I want to mention is families who gossip about a family members wealth or business in general competing instead of addressing topics more important. I am no one to judge as I am not perfect, but I want to ask, "How dare you sit and gossip about anyone in the same breath hiding the family pedophile or uphold the bullshit?" I would like to add that I am a realist meaning I am God fearing but I am also human and its nothing I dislike more than a bitter person trying to steal someone's joy. If you let the devil win in your home and life keep that over there. I am god-fearing and its nothing that can move me, but I will speak on ANY situation. This particular situation is not mine, but I genuinely care about those around me, and I decided to speak on it.  The sec...

 Let me start off by saying I have never ran to go open a child support case for many reasons. The top reason is due to me feeling disgusted with how people misuse the purpose of it. My opinion is most women open the cs cases for bitter reasons. Regardless of why your relationship with the guy ended, or how he was the worst boyfriend/husband, don't take away from him being a father! What I am speaking to is not always the case but i see it alot and it upsets me so much. I created my podcast to share my story, bring more awareness to mental health and also in hopes of uniting many individuals and having great conversations. However i also want to be able to address many elephants in the room and that topic being one. Most importantly and I will forever say until i see change; women need to take more accountability for thier actions. I will continue to share my thoughts and feelings with you'll and i appreciate you taking the time to read my blog :) Be blessed and remember LOVE/F...

 These days and times can be difficult and depressing but i know my angels are watching over me. I also know where my strength comes from therefore i can't be defeated. I wanted to blog and encourage you to stay strong and when times get tough simply look back at what you have made it through. I honestly feel after everything i have endured that NOTHING can break me. I know at times its not so easy to think of the positive but thats a good practice. No matter what you face in life try to focus on the positive and the outcome. Focus on what needs to happen to fix the issue or matter at hand and sometimes you have to just be humble and still. We worry so much about accomplishing certain tasks or trying to figure things out but fact is its already worked out. LET GO & LET GOD!!!!!! (smooches) XOXO & Blessings :) 

 ....before I begin I will admit this is something I am still working on. The problem I am running into is knowing when to submit. I know and feel in my heart God is still working on my husband but in the meantime "When do you submit.....?" My thought on that is if a man comes along and fills the shoes of a man and shows that he is caring, compassionate, respectful, committed, faithful, loyal, driven and has so many other characteristics of someone I would love in my life I may just do so. In these days and times there are more excuses than resolutions. Also more people with different intentions who are not honest. One thing I will not allow is baggage from a previous relationship. By that I am referring to insecurities and signs of jealousy, etc. I want someone just as dedicated and caring as I am. My motto through life is " No excuses, ONLY solutions! I refuse to use what I have been through as an excuse to try and get away with what I know is not righteous. With that ...

 At times we get so caught up in the needs of others and focusing on fixing the issue to where we will run ourselves dry. I recall a time I thought I had to save everyone or find a resolution. I was literally losing sleep and draining myself mentally, physically even financially. In some situations the help was one sided and I overlooked many things because of love. I have now learned everything does not need fixing, at least by me anyway. I now pray more than I ever have because I know where my strength and help comes from.  From family to co-workers and relationships as well it seemed I attract broken people. I now understand its part of my purpose but I have to take things easy and handle it all differently. Nothing is wrong with loving or helping but you have to take it easy and tread lightly. In all situations do whats best for you and don't overload yourself. Be sure to keep calm and communicate openly. If the person you are speaking with is hostile, upset or negative an...