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Grateful

 I just stopped in to say I am so grateful for my support team and most importantly my children. They are both unique in their own way but compared to what we see I am beyond grateful to have the pair I have. I thank them both often and let them know how lucky I am to be their mother. The same way you'll discipline your children be sure to speak life in them and always encourage them to do and be their best while growing DAILY ❤️ my son is 15 now but he is still my baby and knows we can talk about ANYTHING 😊 

Disbelief

 .....I dont know how to start this one but I am in tears. Speaking to so many people and starting to share my testimony is really helping me more than I ever thought possible. I am in tears because as I am speaking to someone and shared that I have published my first book; seeing them review and speak my words touched me so deep words can not explain! Lord I just want to take the time to thank you for using me and I ask that you keep me near and continue to allow me to share your gospel and your goodness :)

Can you imagine?

 Can you imagine losing a child and being accused of bringing harm to cause the death? Can you imagine while trying to process and grieve what just took place being in the back of a police car then interrogated and held for hours for questioning overnight at the police station? Can you imagine those close to you family, friends and strangers also accusing you or using it against you to hurt your feelings? Can you imagine being at your lowest and feeling like no one understands or cares enough to stand by you? Whether you answered yes or no, my answer is yes to them all. I can honestly say I have to thank god for my strength and him keeping me during these tough times.  I was at my lowest not knowing which way to go but one thing I knew is that I had to remain strong for my other child and for myself. I knew even facing what any parent worst nightmare is that I still had to find the faith and keep pushing. Just know I am here to encourage you and talk you through anything you m...

Encourage

Unbelievable! Can you imagine almost every encounter in life being a lesson or chance for you to mentor or encourage someone. Do you understand how far just being kind can go? You have no idea what the person right in front of you may be going through. I am not perfect and i am still figuring a lot out, but I have realized striving for righteousness and walking in my purpose will carry me. It has brought me so far, and I am not speaking financially. Just in general, I look at situations I witness or individuals I come across and it amazes me how many people I end up speaking life into. Just the thought gives me chills because the power of the tongue is underrated. Planting seeds and watching them grow is so much more worthwhile than doing many other things in life. I love to hear feedback or have someone come later or even just see the progress and growth. It genuinely melts my heart; when you have a huge heart its difficult not to care or go out of your way for others. I will also sha...

Break the cycle

The worst thing to do is continue dragging along generational curses. When I mention this; I mean that in the humblest way. I can go into depth with this topic, but I will leave that to be a podcast topic. First thing I want to mention is families who gossip about a family members wealth or business in general competing instead of addressing topics more important. I am no one to judge as I am not perfect, but I want to ask, "How dare you sit and gossip about anyone in the same breath hiding the family pedophile or uphold the bullshit?" I would like to add that I am a realist meaning I am God fearing but I am also human and its nothing I dislike more than a bitter person trying to steal someone's joy. If you let the devil win in your home and life keep that over there. I am god-fearing and its nothing that can move me, but I will speak on ANY situation. This particular situation is not mine, but I genuinely care about those around me, and I decided to speak on it.  The sec...

Child support....

 Let me start off by saying I have never ran to go open a child support case for many reasons. The top reason is due to me feeling disgusted with how people misuse the purpose of it. My opinion is most women open the cs cases for bitter reasons. Regardless of why your relationship with the guy ended, or how he was the worst boyfriend/husband, don't take away from him being a father! What I am speaking to is not always the case but i see it alot and it upsets me so much. I created my podcast to share my story, bring more awareness to mental health and also in hopes of uniting many individuals and having great conversations. However i also want to be able to address many elephants in the room and that topic being one. Most importantly and I will forever say until i see change; women need to take more accountability for thier actions. I will continue to share my thoughts and feelings with you'll and i appreciate you taking the time to read my blog :) Be blessed and remember LOVE/F...

Holiday times

 These days and times can be difficult and depressing but i know my angels are watching over me. I also know where my strength comes from therefore i can't be defeated. I wanted to blog and encourage you to stay strong and when times get tough simply look back at what you have made it through. I honestly feel after everything i have endured that NOTHING can break me. I know at times its not so easy to think of the positive but thats a good practice. No matter what you face in life try to focus on the positive and the outcome. Focus on what needs to happen to fix the issue or matter at hand and sometimes you have to just be humble and still. We worry so much about accomplishing certain tasks or trying to figure things out but fact is its already worked out. LET GO & LET GOD!!!!!! (smooches) XOXO & Blessings :)