Overcoming relationship challenges....

 ....before I begin I will admit this is something I am still working on. The problem I am running into is knowing when to submit. I know and feel in my heart God is still working on my husband but in the meantime "When do you submit.....?" My thought on that is if a man comes along and fills the shoes of a man and shows that he is caring, compassionate, respectful, committed, faithful, loyal, driven and has so many other characteristics of someone I would love in my life I may just do so. In these days and times there are more excuses than resolutions. Also more people with different intentions who are not honest. One thing I will not allow is baggage from a previous relationship. By that I am referring to insecurities and signs of jealousy, etc. I want someone just as dedicated and caring as I am. My motto through life is " No excuses, ONLY solutions! I refuse to use what I have been through as an excuse to try and get away with what I know is not righteous. With that being said I pray to find my soul mate and pray they have as much patience as I pray to have and make it work! Just remember don't make excuses and always work to be a better you DAILY! In order for a relationship to work and that includes with family and friends as well not just your spouse you must be open for change and growth. Keep God at the head of everything you do!